The results
Mostly A’s — You’re in his actual life. You exist in that room even when you’re not in it — mug, drawer, friends who know your name. That’s integration, not luck. Let it be as simple as it looks.
Mostly B’s — He’s keeping you a secret. Welcome only when nobody’s around isn’t privacy, it’s containment. Ask for one daytime thing with one other person there. His answer to that answers everything else.
Mostly C’s — She hasn’t moved out of it. Her things are still in the space you’re asked to sit in. Is he telling you about her, or telling her something through you? Ask him straight where it stands — you’re allowed to.
Mostly D’s — Never made it past the door. Months in and you’ve only ever hosted, after dark. Suggest one afternoon at his, on a named day. A yes-or-no question can’t be answered vaguely, and the dodge is the information.