The results
Mostly A’s — You actually like him. You like the man, not the relief, and that’s rarer than you’d think. Keep checking the only thing that matters: after seeing him, do you feel more like yourself or less?
Mostly B’s — You’re in it for the relief. The high you’re chasing is the anxiety stopping, not him arriving. Notice how long the good feeling lasts after a reply. Ten minutes is a tell, not a romance.
Mostly C’s — You want to be picked. Being picked felt like being loved, and they aren’t the same thing. Ask what you’d make of him if he’d never once made you wait to find out.
Mostly D’s — You’re staying for the months. You’re staying for the time already spent. Nothing has changed since month one and sunk cost isn’t a reason. Ask yourself what’s actually different now.